Monthly Archives: November 2010

What I Wish I’d Known as a Newlywed

There are a few helpful books and guides out there designed to help people solve problems in marriage. Unfortunately though, just like parenting, there is no handbook that they hand to you after the ceremony that gives you exact directions … Continue reading

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Heartbreak Warfare: Fighting Fair

Now I want a nice clean fight. No hits below the belt, no gouging of the eyes, no trash talking, and no kicking when your opponent goes down. When ever an argument, disagreement, tiff, or fight happens in you relationship, … Continue reading

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Superman: The Hidden Hero Inside of You

Whether through your own self-awareness, your wife, or a friend, or even a stranger telling you, you’ve come to the realization that you need to become a better husband. The first step is admitting it. Some of us have fallen … Continue reading

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Divorce is Not in Our Vocabulary

Both of my parents were married before they met and married each other. They’ve now been married to each other for over 30 years. One of their mantras is, “divorce is not in our vocabulary”. Why is this important? In … Continue reading

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What’s Good for the Goose…

…is good for the Gander. I’m guessing you have some sort of hobby. Whether it takes you away from the computer or not, outside or inside, you probably have one. “A good hobby can dispel heartache and give zest to … Continue reading

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The 7 Year Itch

This December 6th my wife and I will have been married 7 years. My wife was 25 and I was 22 when we got married in San Diego, CA. At that point, I’d already known people from high school who … Continue reading

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Veteran’s Day, Part 2 – Men Married to Women Serving in the Military

Continuing the Veteran’s Day series today addressing men married to women serving in the military. Women have been serving in military situations for a long time. Whether as medical staff or a soldier, women have played a vital role in … Continue reading

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Veteran’s Day, Part 1 – Married Men Serving in the Military

As a salute to our Veteran’s on this special holiday, I thought I’d talk about military husbands. There are 2 kinds of military husbands: married men who are serving in the military and men who are married to a woman … Continue reading

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The “Twilight” Effect

“Why can’t you be more like Edward?” Wow. How can a husband reply to such a statement? Edward Cullen is the “vegetarian” vampire at the center of the “Twilight” book series by Stephenie Meyer. He is handsome, strong, intriguing, and … Continue reading

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Where’s the Love?

John Wayne has always been one of my heroes. The Duke could ride, shoot, break a horse, mend a fence, speak Apache, fly a plane, and knock a man out with one punch. He truly was a man’s man. One … Continue reading

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